Good Morning. I hope your day is starting out with a bang! Today is not the day for me. I wish that we still were on spring break. It was so nice not to have anything to do and to actually enjoy my home. For 1 whole week I was allowed to just be and… Continue reading Monotony
I’m not going down without a fight!
Hope everyone is having a very joy filled blessed day. The post below was in my drafts. There are some things that come across in this post that make me remember how it used to be. Things aren't how they used to be. Meaning I'm starting from the beginning once again. But there is power… Continue reading I’m not going down without a fight!
Back to the drawing board
Good Morning!!!! There's always something in life that is going to through you off from your routine. For me that was Spring Break. Even though I didn't do much, I still did a lot. It's crazy that when you're not doing anything you feel guilty for not doing anything. The guilt was something I had… Continue reading Back to the drawing board
Coloring outside the lines
Good Morning!! There isn't much that I have to say that's going to be too inspiring these days. Honestly, there has been way too much going on with me to concentrate on one thing entirely. I have to say things are going good, but they could always be going better. What I'm learning from this… Continue reading Coloring outside the lines
Broken Men
Am I the only one that believes the way some men handle their emotions needs to change? There is a stigma with men and not being able to express their self. I know plenty people think about men and the way their emotions are going to come… Continue reading Broken Men
(Wo)Man in the Mirror
Good Morning today is a good day. Not because something happened for me to declare it as one, but because I have a positive attitude and believe that it will be. Many days that's all it takes is for you to believe. Aside from that; how many of you have listened to people describe you… Continue reading (Wo)Man in the Mirror
Safe
Good Morning!!! Hope all is well and great things are happening for you. We try to do what's right because that is what we were taught. But the right thing is the safe thing and SAFE doesn't produce results like chaos and passion does. Safe... is what I've been all the days of my life.… Continue reading Safe
Be Fearless
https://youtu.be/nxSCtHxRAfQ We all need daily inspiration and motivation to keep going. This is one of the people I look to. I hope you find this helpful. Have a great weekend!!!!
Childlike
Good Morning!!! Wishing and hoping your day is going better than it ever could. Sending nothing but love and positivity your way. I'm not sure where you're reading this from, but wherever it is, I hope it's a place you want to be. Throughout life we are faced with things we have to do and… Continue reading Childlike
All for 1 and 1 for All
Good Morning Beautiful people!! I hope your day is going great. I'm sure this topic may cause a difference of opinion like most things do. Topic of discussion; "America is the Greatest Country". Honestly I don't know enough about it to be completely accurate, but I believe I know enough. There are so many things… Continue reading All for 1 and 1 for All
Writing
Good Morning!! It is the start of the week and I'm wishing it was the end already. Life isn't bad, but it could be a lot better. It seems like the only thing that remains constant are obligations. I think the daily obligations is what motivated me to start creating my on realities. Having so… Continue reading Writing
Fear of The Unknown
Good Morning Everyone! I know we are all starting the work week once again. Something I wasn't too thrilled about when I got out of the bed this morning. But one thing is true; your current reality is only yours because you believed it to be so. Too often we allow people and obligations to… Continue reading Fear of The Unknown
Good Morning!! Have you had those days when you're trying to find some happiness or at least focus on something that is capable of taking you out of a depressive state of being? At the current moment that is my reality. The problem is; my fixation of uneasiness with others. I've always felt I have… Continue reading
Conflict
I've had this blog for over 5 years and I've used it as a sense of therapy to help me get over some things that have been a little difficult to deal with. I'm sure everyone has something they use or do that helps them through the difficult times. Many of my difficult times come… Continue reading Conflict
Service NOT Servant
Hope everyone out there is doing everything you've ever dreamt of doing, and so much more. There's something that I've been hearing over and over again; and that's living to be of service to others. When I heard of this way of living and being, I automatically was against it. It left a awful taste… Continue reading Service NOT Servant
How a People Pleaser is born
How are you all doing this morning? I was thinking long and hard about what I wanted to share with you this morning. First I thought I should give you all something career positive. Then I thought of starting a series of short stories. The point is, there were a lot of things that came… Continue reading How a People Pleaser is born
Faith small as a mustard seed
Have you ever had times in your life when you felt you were turning in to someone people weren't going to love as much as they loved who you used to be? The more I do work on myself to figure out the type of person I am, the more I'm liking this person. I'm… Continue reading Faith small as a mustard seed
Exhausted
Good Morning Everyone! Hope all is well. There isn't much I have to say today. I'm exhausted. I've had an expresso this morning and I'm still feeling a little grumpy. But I'm going to work at making this day a great day, because I have too. If you're feeling like me, think of the things… Continue reading Exhausted
Calling all Readers!!!
There's something I would like to do that is a little different for my new followers. For those of you who have been following me for a while, you might be familiar with this. Every week there is going to be a new part to a book I'm working on. It is going to be… Continue reading Calling all Readers!!!
Let Your Light Shine
Good Morning! Every morning you have a chance to enhance your life. Too often we get stuck in a rut thinking; "This is the life that I have and I might as well accept that." All though that may be true at the time, it doesn't mean there is no possible way to change it… Continue reading Let Your Light Shine
Gender Feminine & Masculine
Good Morning! How do you all feel about gender roles? Some men and women believe women have a role and men have a role. Then there are others who believe 50/50 partnership is the goal. I pick up your slack, you pick up mine. I bring this up because I was having a debate with… Continue reading Gender Feminine & Masculine
The Weekend
The weekend... a time of the week a lot of us can't wait for. Most of us right now have wished the weekend was everyday of the week. Then we remember we need to work because we need to be able to live. But who said living had to be so hard? The weekend... the… Continue reading The Weekend
Double Masked Up
There's so much of ourselves we don't show the world. If you think about it, you'll realize the only people who get to experience you as your true self are those you've grown to trust.The sad thing is many of us have not allowed ourselves to trust to many people with who we are authentically.… Continue reading Double Masked Up
What gets you through?
So many years have come and gone and never once did I realize what got me through. As I'm sitting here thinking about it, I believe what got me through is my need to be connected to someone, whether that was a boyfriend, friend, or family. I always felt like I needed someone else with… Continue reading What gets you through?
Are you the Source or the Plug
There are times in your life you realize that you're giving too much of yourself. Some of us begin to realize this and make a change and then you have others who have been this way so long that it's almost impossible for them to change. I'm sure I've touched on this subject before, but… Continue reading Are you the Source or the Plug
The R & R (Rat Race)
What's been up since we last spoke??..... I hope everything is going well in your life and if it isn't I pray it gets better soon. Remember; "Trouble don't last always". But if you need someone to talk to I'm here. Did you know that your mind can make you tired before you body ever… Continue reading The R & R (Rat Race)
Road Block
What's up beautiful people?!.... How is it that I have so much to say, but nothing consistent? The only thing I can say is what I'm currently working on and that is my ability to be consistent. I've realized through entering school once again, nothing great is able to grow from inconsistency. Unfortunately this has… Continue reading Road Block
Settle?…… Yay or Nah
Good Morning, lovely people!!!! I hope your day is going as good as mine. Everyday I get to wake up and have a better day than the last is a good one. First of all, being single has its perks. I would be lying though if I neglected to say that I didn't miss having… Continue reading Settle?…… Yay or Nah
Romantic
What's up people?!! Hope everyone is doing more than fine. There was something that just came to mind. I'm sure if you have a pulse and you are in your mid to late thirties you've been with someone who tricked you into believing they loved you. That's one of the reasons I don't get involved… Continue reading Romantic
Making it through
Good morning! I hope all is well. I debated long and hard what I was going to talk about on this fifth day of the week. To be honest I still don't have any clue. Truth be told there's just so much that has happened throughout this week. One thing I can say that I'm… Continue reading Making it through
The only way to go is Up
The way my life turned out is not the way I ever imagined it. I thought life was a lot easier than it actually is. I thought as long as you wanted it, it was yours for the taking. It is in a sense, but you have to prove that you want it. It's not… Continue reading The only way to go is Up
New Beginning 2023
It's been a long time! I'm so glad to be back! I've missed writing to and interacting with you all soo, soo, soo much! It's like a breath of fresh air to be able to have a place to speak my mind. Lets face it, I'm not the one that is going to say what… Continue reading New Beginning 2023
Is Kindness a Weakness
Good Morning, There's something that is on my heart and brain right now. I'm gonna try my best to get it off. Here it goes; through the years I've allowed myself to decline as far as effort and financial freedom is concerned. If I'm honest I had way more financial freedom when I worked for… Continue reading Is Kindness a Weakness
Who Am I
Good Morning Hope things are going well with you all. There have been emotional mental breaking points I've been facing this week. This isn't the first time, but it is the first time I've felt so turbulent. I'm sure the only reason emotions and anxiety are running so high is do to not having a… Continue reading Who Am I
Cautious and Fearful
What am I missing?!..... I have been told repeatedly, "Making money is the easy part." Where?!... How?! For the longest I never wanted to work for anyone. There have been so many things I've tried to do, in order to not work for anyone else. But they have failed. I'm sure the only reason they've… Continue reading Cautious and Fearful
Creating Your Reality
Good Morning!!!! I hope everyone is doing well today. There's so many things to be thankful for. I've been thinking a lot as I tend to do a lot of, and I have come to realize the people you hang around the most have a hand in shaping your reality. This doesn't always have to… Continue reading Creating Your Reality
Never Give up
There's something to be said about those who are thankful for every morning they're blessed to live another day. Most of us are so wrapped up in our depression that we can't see the blessings when they are given to us. Also let me clarify, blessing means the gift that was given to you. This… Continue reading Never Give up
Life is like a……
What's up everyone?!... Like Forest said; "Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get." I'm not sure why that quote came to me. But it makes so much sense, now that I'm thinking about it. The one thing I believe kind of throws a whole monkey wrench in that… Continue reading Life is like a……
Update
Good Morning!!! I know it's been a long while since I've done a post. Reason being, emotionally and mentally I was going through some things. Nothing extreme, just something I needed time to deal with. I'm not going to say everything is resolved, because it isn't. I just really needed to let you all know… Continue reading Update
What's up!!!!! I know it's been a while. There are some good things that have been going on with me. I am so sorry about the break in posts. But I truly needed it. I was in not such a good place. Thinking 'What's the purpose of my life?" I still have those thoughts, but… Continue reading
Big Decisions Ahead
What should you do when you're done and want to give up?! This is a thought that's constantly gone through my mind. There're many many more things going through my head. I guess you could say that I've become way too laxed. To be honest with you I want to change my whole life. There… Continue reading Big Decisions Ahead
This is B.S!
This is some B.S!..... Back to reality; Temporarily. There's something about the alarm waking you up at the earliest hours of the morning that really piss me off! I swear this s*** is for the birds! Having to go right back to the drawing board is not what I wanted for my life. But I… Continue reading This is B.S!
You Are Enough
Good Morning!!! If you're in your mid to late 30's or older and you're single, why do you think that is?..... I think there're more single people out there in this day and age because things have truly changed since the birth of Millennials. I'm a Millennial and I recognize how times have changed since… Continue reading You Are Enough
With Every Breath Comes Opportunity
Good Morning!!! A lot of us had so much imagination, we pulled inspiration from almost any and everywhere. I miss those times. The older I get there're many things becoming clearer to me. Many times it feels like I'm the only one in my circle of friends and family that hasn't quite grown up yet.… Continue reading With Every Breath Comes Opportunity
Life
Good Morning!! What is it about parents and them always wanting to tell you what you should be doing with your life?...... I understand that most want the best for you. But many times they want you to do something that isn't conducive with what you want to do with your life. A lot of… Continue reading Life
Check-In
Good Day to Everyone I truly hope life is treating you kind. What I'm feeling today is defeat. Reason being; I thought I would be doing something else before school came back into session. I really believed a month and a half would be more than enough time for me to get my business up… Continue reading Check-In
Societal Pressure
Good Morning. I hope you all are doing well. As for myself, I guess you could say that I'm not doing that bad. In all honesty I feel like I am. I'm starting to have a panic attack. I was hoping to gain another source of income before the end of summer. I know summer… Continue reading Societal Pressure
I Quit!!!
Good Afternoon. Hope your day and summer is going well. My summer has been very relaxing. Something that I was looking forward to ever since school let out. I don't know about you but I'm a person who loves to relax and just take my time with things. With that said, I guess I've taken… Continue reading I Quit!!!
Freedom is Tomorrow
Good Morning!! Hope you all are doing well and living your best lives. There is so much that I'm able to get involved with because I'm not working at the current time. I just want to say, "I'm so thankful to have this time to figure out what I want to do that's going to… Continue reading Freedom is Tomorrow
Mindset
Mindset: In decision theory and general systems theory, a mindset is a set of assumptions, methods, or notions held by one or more people or groups of people. A mindset can also be seen as arising out of a person's world view or philosophy of life. Definition provided by Wikipedia Good Morning! Good Morning! Good… Continue reading Mindset
Love is Elevation not Depression
Good Morning!!! There is only one thing that I'm celebrating today...... IT'S FRIDAY!!!!!! Let me start off by saying there is only one place you can have peace and that is where you lay your head. If you're not able to have peace at home something is wrong. Something or someone needs to be removed… Continue reading Love is Elevation not Depression
Be Delusional
Good Morning!!! Beautiful, beautiful people! How are you all today? I hope the answer is nothing less than marvelous or spectacular. There is no room for anything less. Not that long ago there was this video going around. The basis of the video was to let people know there isn't anything wrong with being delusional.… Continue reading Be Delusional
Shads Short Stories 