Why is it expected for the woman to be everything in the relationship? I always wondered why so much is expected of the woman and not much is expected from the man. Don’t get me wrong I love being a female, but there is just to much that is required of us. To be honest it isn’t even that bad in the U.S it gets worse when you go to other countries because a lot of them us their wives as their concubine, slave, and care giver. The man has all the say while the wife in most cases does all or most of the work. Does that make sense to you? If it does your better off then I am.
How are we the key to so much but are in many cases treated like the dirt under someone’s shoe? I believe it’s do to the fact that many of us do not no our worth, so we settle for less. All these women out here taking care of able bodied men and taking care of their children on their own, working two and three jobs just to hold it down for their families. I commend you all, because I can understand how hard it is to try to make an unfortunate situation work. But we have to learn not just how to make it work but how to make it pleasant. I’m not sure about you, but I don’t want to just make it work I want to love everything thing that I do in my life. I know that everything in life isn’t going to be easy but you can try to make at least 75% fun. Everyone thinks that life is about accomplishments and surviving, but living is about what you did while you were here. Who did you touch, what lives changed because of your mere presents? Many of us forget that, that is the real definition of living. We get so wrapped up into these worldly things like money, status, and attention that we forget about the real reason that we were put here in the first place. I may be wrong but I truly believe that we were put here to make the world, ourself’s, and others better.
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