Sometimes there’s nothing you can do but go through it.
I’m sure you’ve heard something like this before or something similar to it. I couldn’t tell you how many times I’ve heard this. Why is it people are so quick to tell you, “Just go through it so you can get to the other side?”….
I’ve come to realize people tell you this because that’s what other people have told them or it’s all they know. Sometimes you may have to go through some uncomfortable things in order to get to the other side. But, there is always another option. You could also do away with the whole situation and start anew. For example if you’re a woman or man who is in a relationship that is or has not served you in a long time, it’s time to go. I don’t care if you have 15 or 20 kids. What’s the point in staying in a relationship you’re not happy in? It’s not like the kids can’t see you all are not happy. Sometimes kids know before the parents do. So, do you really want them to go through life thinking; “I have to stay married to my husband/ wife because that’s what my parents did?” HELL NAH!! You would not wish that on anyone. So why would you allow yourself to go through life in a loveless relationship? Don’t say because of your kids or finances. Remember, the way you choose to live your life, does not have to be like anyone else’s. Know that if you’re happy, your children are going to be happy; and as far as finances; there are thousands of ways to step up your income.
Know that, the next time you want to invite yourself to a pity party; there is always away out of the darkness. The choice is and always will be yours. You owe it to yourself to live this life to it’s full capacity. Go all out! Be the person, mother/father, lover, friend, daughter/son, or sister/brother you see yourself being.
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And….. Live life on your turns!
Also, I would to hear how you have or plan to get out of the rut you’re in. If share I will too.
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