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Is sex the glue?

Often times we go through relationships, not realizing  sex is a key factor. But what if you’re with someone and all they do is want sex from you without putting in the work? Is it still your obligation to engage in sexual activity with this person? Or is it important to stay connected mentally so that the physical doesn’t dwindle?

Some people don’t have a problem with not being stimulated mentally before they engage with someone sexually. For some the physical pleasure of it is enough. For someone like myself, I have to be stimulated emotionally, mentally and physically. There’s no way I would be able to lay down with someone without getting to know a little something about them first; that isn’t how the juices get to flowing.

I’m not quit sure if that is a woman thing or a people thing; but I for sure would need to at least like and feel some type of attraction for the person before things could get that far. There are many people who are with someone now solely because they give them sex on the regular and it’s good. That person could be going through all types of s*** but will take it because the sex is good. Not I, I’m not going through that again. That was something I was stupid enough to endure when I was younger. Now that I’m older… I do not have the patients that I once had to entertain foolery.

I don’t know what it is, but when you get older there’s a lot of bulls*** you won’t deal with anymore; things you use to tolerate left and right because you were young and didn’t know any better. It’s just something about getting older, your tolerance just isn’t the same.

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