I know I’ve been M.I.A for a good while now. That was do in part to my health. But as the days pass I’m feeling better.
Well let’s get to the blog; shall we?
I’m sure this isn’t the first time I’ve written about it or you’ve read something else from someone else regarding the same topic. But, I want to give you my viewpoint.
We always want someone who’s gonna do for us what the next person won’t.
But….. have you ever thought of it from the viewpoint of; “I’m that person who won’t do those things for myself?”
We hear it over and over again about self worth. How we’re not suppose to allow someone to come in and take up space if they have no respect for us. But we never think of; Why does it happen in the first place?”
Many of us allow these time wasters and cum critters to waste our time because we weren’t taught from young how to spot and what to do when they come your way. That’s why you have so many Good women and men out here marrying and wasting decades with ain’t s*** people.
As I’ve gotten older I’ve learned; If you can’t have a great time by yourself, how the hell are you supposed to have fun with somebody else?!
So many of us are looking for another person to save us. Many of us go whole life times expecting to find that one person who’s going to take us away from all the sad, upset, confusing things or people that are our life. Not realizing we are who we’re looking for.
See, one of the saddest things to learn when you’ve lived all your days and still haven’t found happiness is;
You are your own hero. You had the power to change your reality all along.
So to those who don’t believe happiness begins with self worth and discovery. Please reevaluate your values and morals.
I’m really just trying to save those of us out here who have the mindset of, “If he/she leaves me, what kind of life will I have without them?”
There are people everyday taking their own life or someone else’s because the person they chose made a different choice and decided to be with someone else.
I understand love makes us do some crazy things while we’re in it. That’s why the best person for you to fall for first and always is YOU. One thing’s for sure, you’re never leaving YOU.
Might be a little corny but as long as you keep this in mind breakups will be way easier. “Self Worth Makes the Dream Work”.
Remembering that and really practicing it will put people on high alert as to how to handle you. What that means is; once people realize you’re good with them in or out of your life, they’ll either straighten up real quick or exit stage left. Keep in mind no love lost. It’s just you have found your voice and realized your worth; and you’ve realized you’re not down for the Tom Foolery anymore.
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