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Alabama woman indicted for loss of unborn fetus

Good Morning! Hope everyone is well.

I wanted to bring something to your attention. Not sure if you came across it yet. There was a woman recently indicted for getting shot while pregnant. As if getting shot wasn’t  enough; now she has to deal with being in jail because someone chose to shoot her in the stomach.

It seems like this case, played right into the seriousness of the abortion ban. I truly believe this woman is only being punished because they want to make an example out of her. If that is the case, it’s sad that they rather take someone’s time (they’ll never get back), to make a point.

I hate to say it, but it wouldn’t be me if I didn’t. I believe if she had been another race, things would have gone completely different. They say she’s getting charged with her unborn child’s murder, because it was her job to protect the unborn fetus. Also, claims of her starting the altercation, fueled the negative outcome. What I’m not understanding is how you could get shot by someone, loose your child because of it and you’re the one sitting in prison, with egg on your face. Isn’t it enough she had to go through the physical pain of getting shot? Not to mention the emotional pain of having a little human growing inside her, only to get to the half way mark and someone take that little miracle away.

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Marshae Jones; mother of unborn fetus.

The other thing that made no sense; How are you suppose to have control over someone else’s actions? I’m not saying the Mom to be a.k.a  Marshae Jones didn’t antagonize the shooter (Ebony Jemison). I don’t know exactly what happened; meaning I wasn’t their, so I don’t know what took place to make the argument escalate to that point.

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Ebony Jemison- Marshae Jones’ shooter

Reports only state shots were fired outside of a Dollar General on Park Road in Alabama.

Supposedly the altercation started over Jones’ baby’s father. The conversation turned into an altercation quickly, and that’s when shots were fired.

Now, this woman is facing time because an “intentional shot” was fired at her stomach. It had to be intentional; there’s very little chance it wasn’t.

Here’s how I think the whole thing went; Marshae was probably flaunting her pregnant belly because she knew Ebony was in the facility, and she wanted to rub her face in it. Ebony got tired of it; stepped to Marshea. They started to argue, things got a little too heated for Ebony, because Marshae was getting a little to flip at the mouth. Then Ebony shot her in the only place she knew could possibly take away the pain of being hurt and betrayed; the stomach. Wanting to hurt them both as much as they hurt her.

If you think about it, it makes perfect sense. You have two women fighting over a man; taking out their frustrations on each other, instead of on him. Typical women of today.

We need to start realizing we’re the prize, and start looking at the next woman as our sister; rather then as our enemy.

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War on Women

What is a miscarriage?
Miscarriage is when an embryo or fetus dies before the 20th week of pregnancy. Miscarriage usually happens early in your pregnancy — 8 out of 10 miscarriages happen in the first 3 months.
Lots of people experience this kind of pregnancy loss. In fact, 10-20% of pregnancies end in miscarriage. But even though miscarriage is common, it can be emotionally difficult. Feelings of grief and loss are normal after losing a pregnancy.
The medical term for miscarriage is “spontaneous abortion.”

What are the causes of miscarriage?

It can be difficult to know exactly why a miscarriage happened, but it’s almost never caused by something the pregnant person did. Normal activities like sex, exercise, working, and taking most medicines do NOT cause a miscarriage. Minor injuries, like falling, don’t generally cause a miscarriage either.
Some things that are known to cause miscarriages include:
When the fertilized egg has an abnormal number of chromosomes (genes). This happens at random, so you can’t prevent it or cause it to happen.
Certain illnesses, like severe diabetes, can increase your chances of having a miscarriage.
A very serious infection or a major injury may cause miscarriage.
Late miscarriages — after 3 months — may be caused by abnormalities in the uterus.
If you’ve had more than 2 miscarriages in a row, you’re more likely to have a miscarriage.


Good Morning, Beautiful People!!!

Hope all is well.

I wanted to share with you something most men will never worry about a day in their lives’; Miscarriage. I think this is something that needs to be reflected on a little longer, in a lot more depth.

Miscarriages are already something women take hard in the first place! I don’t understand how a man or a large group of men have the right to decide on the fate of a woman and her body! They have never had to go through one painful period, or the embarrassment of walking around not noticing you bled through because your pad shifted, or your flow was too heavy for your tampon or pad, or even the pain of loosing a child or bleeding so heavy til you literally see stars.

No, man knows anything about this. So, I’m not understand how in Georgia they’re saying miscarriage is consider second degree murder and women who experience miscarriages could be sentenced to 30yrs in prison! Doesn’t that sound crazy?!

First of all; How are you going to imprison a woman for something that is happening with her body?!

To be honest, I feel like we’re going back to the 1800’s, where men did whatever they wanted and women had to deal with it! How in the hell is it possible that we have, most likely more women than we do men and they still have say so over what a woman does with her body?!! I’m in no way saying I’m for abortion. I just think your body is your business, and no government, man or other entity should have the right to tell you what to do with it.

Think of it like this, if the Creator didn’t want you to have it, it wouldn’t be yours.

I would really love to see something be done about theses ridiculous laws concerning abortion. To be honest the only one that really concerns me is the one in Georgia. I feel like because of this new law, there are going to be plenty women afraid to go to the doctor, for the simple fact that it could land them in jail for 30yrs. Because of this, a lot of women won’t get the type of care they need for they’re babies, that are going to come in to the world.

Another thing that could be possible is; they’re coming up with these laws to slow down the population. Think about it; if you knew you couldn’t get an abortion or having a spontaneous miscarriage could land you in jail. Wouldn’t you do all you could not to get pregnant in the first place?

If you would like to read the full article link is below.

https://www.businessinsider.com/misguided-science-behind-georgias-abortion-miscarriage-law-2019-5?fbclid=IwAR0MAc1sfxN0p_ctMm3jQxu42gZ4qtpZi3R9kqo0EdhOz-M_lzze1BI-CH0

I would love to know your thoughts on these new laws concerning Abortions and Miscarriages.

Remember if you want something to be done, you can’t wait for someone else to do it for you. You have to start the change yourself.

What is a miscarriage? & What are the causes of miscarriage? Information were taken from: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/pregnancy/miscarriage

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Loyalty Part 2

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“You see, that’s the reason I didn’t want to tell you!”
“Oh, so you weren’t going to tell me huh?!”
“That’s not what I meant!” He already knew that he lost the argument. That’s how he lost plenty of arguments with Stacy, saying just a little bit too much.
“We’re here!….. Thank God!”
“What is that supposed to mean?”
“Nothing. Can’t I just be happy to be at work?”
“Mmmmhm. Yeah like I really believe that.”
“It’s not for you to believe.” Come on let’s go.”
“Don’t be rushing me!”
“I’m not rushing you! Stay in the car! Get out when you ready! I don’t care either way.
You really doing the most this morning.”
“Whatever. How do you expect me to act when you spring something like this on me?”
“Stacy I don’t have the time to argue with you. Some of us do actually have to work for a living.”
“No, the hell you didn’t go there! I’m the reason that you have this record label to begin with! Don’t make me tell it all because I will!”
“Baby, why are you making this bigger than what it is?”
“Because you thinking that you are going to try me and that there’s nothing going to be said about it.
Bro you are sadly mistaken.”
“Baby how did we get here? I thought that we were having a good morning.”
“We were until you tried to sneak some s**t past me!”
“Bae, think about it. If I was trying to sneak something past you I wouldn’t have told you in the first place.”
“Yeah, that’s what you say. But, I’m sure that the only reason that you told me is because you didn’t want to feel guilty. That just lets me know that the girl got to be fine. Because if she wasn’t you probably wouldn’t have even signed her.”
“Now you know that looks don’t matter to me.”
“Yeah, tell that bold face ass lie to someone that doesn’t know you.
I see how you be checking out everything that walks by. The only reason that I don’t say anything is because you have never given me a reason to doubt you.”
“So, way are you acting out now?”
“Because you made a major decision with out me. Also, the more rope I give you to hang yourself, you are doing just that.”
“Well I guess that it doesn’t matter what I say. Since you got it in your mind that I am or I’m going to cheat on you anyway.”
“I never said that. I’m just saying, let me know what’s going on.”
“I do and I will always, let you know what’s going on.”

In the distance Stacy saw a very beautiful, shapely, woman with a deep creamy caramel complexion sauntering over to the car. The site of this woman instantly caused more unknowing friction between Stacy and Jacoby.
“Who is that? That better not be Shadow.”
“Baby just give her a chance. I promise that you are going to love her.”
“Oh, because you do, right? I swear if this turns out to be one of your side hoes I’m gonna beat you ass and hers!”
“Shhhh. Her she comes!”

Chapter 2

“Don’t shhh me!”
Jacoby wasn’t sure how Stacy was going to act. All he could do is hope for the best.
“Hey Boss. Is everything okay?”
“What the f*** you mean is everything okay?!”
“I’m not talking to you!”
“Well, b**** I’m talking to you!”

To be continued…….

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Illusive Right

I’ve heard recently that women will no longer have the right to have abortions. I’m not understanding how a life altering event for a woman could no longer be in her own control. A man can choose to walk away from his responsibilities of being a father at any time; but a woman can’t?!  If she is forced to play a role in that childs’ life; the father of that child should have to go through the same things with her. Women don’t lay down and get pregnant on their own. So why should they be forced to raise these babies on thier own. If that was a requirement there would be less baby making and more raising. Men would stop impregnating women if they knew that they had to give more than money.

  Time is something that you can never get more of. That is why I think these men that want to spread their seed everywhere should have to spend a minimum of 20hrs a week with every child they ever fathered. By making that a requirement it would help the children involved to become a more developed individual. It will also make the father/ sperm donor think before they engage in unprotected intercourse with a woman they had no intention of making their wife in the first place. 

  What boggles my mind is men having the control to decide what a woman is allowed to do with HER body. I guarantee if men could get pregnant their whole perspective on abortions would change. I’m not saying that its right. I’m just saying that the choice should remain tangable. If not, alot of these young girls that find themselves in compromising situations are going to start dying from botched abortions like they use to. Just keep that in mind if you have a daughter.

  I’m almost positive that people believe that women who choose to have abortions or put their children up for aboption are very selfish individuals. That isn’t always the case. Many mothers I’ve talked to say that they gave their children up because they wanted their child to have the best and they knew that they weren’t in the position to give that to them. So they made the decision to let someone else give that to them or in other cases not bring that child into the world.

 Everything is perception. Never judge with out knowing the full story.

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