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Anti-Social People Person

What’s up? How are ya’ll doing today?

I’m sure you’re looking at the title and you’re like, ” Does that even make any sense?” To be honest, I wouldn’t have known anything like this existed if it wasn’t me going through it. It’s not fun, let me tell you that.

It’s like I love and care about everyone that I’ve ever come in contact with. But, most times I’m either afraid to say something or I’m on a crabby mood and I don’t want to say anything. Either way it’s uncomfortable.

If I weren’t so emotional and cared how others viewed me, I would be at peace right now. I wouldn’t be tormented by my interactions with others. Worry if I was nice enough, if I came off rude, or if they liked me.

What I’ve found out is; personality types such as the INFP( my personality type) are highly sensitive and are constantly seeking the approval from others. Learning this early on would have helped me realize why I’m so different from others.

I’m sure many probably won’t believe this is a real thing. But for me it has helped me a lot in realizing who I am . Also letting me know I’m not that weird because there are other people out there just like me.

If you’re a antisocial people person don’t fret because you have a friend in me.

As Always

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Feeling Enlightened

Hey everyone!!!

I hope you’re having a great day, year, life;all that good stuff.

I thought I would leave you all some inspirational words. Sometime we need words of affirmation and inspiration to help us through.

Often times we are ripping and running so much we don’t take the time for ourselves to know what we really need.

So I’m gonna say these few words and I hope it brings a spring to your step and a lightness to your heart.

You are capable of every and anything you ever think or thought of.

Never allow someone’s opinions or negative self talk dictate the way you move through out your life.

Allow yourself to think freely. No one way is right for everyone. Their way may not be your way and vice a versa. And that’s okay.

You were put here to experience life the way you know how.

Never forget that.

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5 Rules to Live by

This are some of my rules I live by. I’m not perfect. So I admit sometimes it’s a struggle. I believe one day I’ll get the hang of it.


Be you, because no one else can

 No matter if someone is doing something else or a whole group of people are doing the same thing, you have the right, scratch that; it’s your duty to always be true to you.

There are so many people walking around today saying to themselves, “I wish I did it when I had the chance.” Sometimes it’s a situation other times it could be a really important part of life you missed out on, because you were worried about what the next person was going to say about it. As you know and I know; No one can live for you. So you have to always do what is going to help you live your best life.


Be Humble

It’s something that has the ability to make you relatable to almost anyone. It’s also just a great quality to have.

Many times when people are humble they also have a large capacity to be extremely empathetic.

Another great quality.


Love often

I believe loving people is one of the things we were put here to do. As a lot of people say, “There is no life without love” and I truly believe that. Relationships are what makes life great! I’m sure there isn’t one person who could say they were better off alone. The only reason I could see someone saying that, is if they were hurt by someone and that person scarred them from ever wanting to experience that feeling again.

So love hard and love often.


Have fun

We get so busy with our day to day lives, we forget to have fun. I understand you have to work, take care of your family and other obligations. But treat fun as another thing on your to do list. Even if it’s 10 to 15 min a day, get it in. Life will be less drab if you do.

Also having fun is great for your brain. When you have fun certain chemicals are released; chemicals such as serotonin, and dopamine. Serotonin helps make you feel happy and dopamine makes you excited.

But that’s not the only reason you should have fun. Another is to have great memories to look back on. Having great memories helps to produce a great life.


Live each Day as if it were your last

This is important!! Living each day this way helps you realize what is most important to you. If we truly lived each day this way, I think there would be a lot more happy adults. But we have been taught to water ourselves down to fit into society and what is deemed normal. But you and I know, we all have things we do or think of that makes us different from the average person. Always know you have more in common with the next person than you think.

So, be open to meeting new people and doing new things.


You Only Live Once

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