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Mr. Ideal

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Good Morning y’all,


I’m gonna be honest; this post is going to be about the type of man I have come to learn about through movies. One movie in particular; Fifty Shades of Gray. I’m sure a lot of you have seen it. If you haven’t; How could you not?! At this point you gotta be living under a rock! This is specifically for my women, because I’m sure most men haven’t or wouldn’t waste their time watching it.

Well let me get to the meat and potatoes.

Seeing love being displayed in that magnitude made me want to recreate something like that in my own life. But the trouble with that is, many times things don’t flow and turn out as well as they do in the movies. Most of us have to kiss a lot of frogs before we find our prince. Trust me I know. But, I have no doubt he’s out there. I just haven’t found him yet.

What I’ve realized while being on this journey to finding my ‘Christian’ is to just have fun with the process. Stop trying to make every man the one, because most of them are not going to be.

But when he does come…. I’m gonna be ready for that ass! There are gonna be so many things we’re gonna try and so many places we’re going to go. For instance, I’ve never been to an amusement park with a spouse or gone on a cruise or out of town. So we are going to be busy. But you know what?… Even if I don’t meet my ‘Christian’ I’m still gonna do all  those things. Whether it be by myself or with loved ones; I’m not gonna let one situation stop me from living; as I have all these years.

One thing I must continue to reiterate is; This life is to short to wait for others to catch up. You have to start being that dare devil for yourself. Go out on a limb and do that crazy thing you’ve always wanted to. Chances are if you’re waiting on someone else, you may never get the chance again.


I want to thank you all so much for rocking with me. With my inconsistent ass. I know I need to do better, and I will eventually. Also if you aren’t living the life of your dreams right now, take a step everyday to make that shit possible. Oh yeah, make sure to have some bomb sex while you’re at it. I’m not getting none, so it’ll bring me comfort to know someone is.


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Mr. Grey

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How many of you have watched every movie in the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy ?

I have, and I loved part 1 and 2. I tried to get my Mom to watch it. She thought that she wasn’t going to like it, because the only thing she could focus on was the domination and not the actual attraction, care, and tenderness Christian showed to Anastasia. When she watched it the first time to her it seemed like abuse, but once she watched it again by her self and was able to see all of the tiny little details that make up their relationship, she was able to understand.

submittingWhat makes me want to speak on these movies is, I watched one of them last night. Those are the only movies I can watch over and over again; Fifty Shades of Grey and Fifty Shades Darker. The connection that Christian and Anastasia had was one you would love to experience at least once in your life time. Most people thought it was about domination and sex.

showerTrue, they all had plenty of sex in them, but it was about something deeper. The love Christian had for Anastasia grew, in what most people would consider a short period of time. The reason that happened was her ability to see deeper than just the surface image he was trying to emulate (I swear, creators/ intuitives  have that ability to see things in a situation or person that can’t be seen by the average observer. I guess that’s what makes most of us so passionate). For Mr. Christian Grey, meeting Anastasia Steele was like a breath of fresh air. He had never had someone that truly cared for him, outside of his family. Everyone that he ever met always respected, or feared him because of the amount of power and money he had. Women agreed to being his submissive for that very reason. Hoping if they do everything he says, they will get the chance to be Mrs. Grey. But little did he and they know he needed something a lot different.walk away

Meeting Ms. Steele, (as he referred to her when they met) was a shock to his system. She was the source and he was the Energy. Having someone that got him without really knowing him, made him curious to learn more about this girl who saw through that façade  of him being an asshole. Getting to know her proved a little difficult for Grey, because he thought he knew what he wanted until she showed him what he needed. Knowing her made him realize that all those years of dominating was nothing like having a woman who had a strong will, and was able to think for herself. Slowly, he learned there is no master when it comes to love.

For those of you wondering why I didn’t speak on Fifty Shades Freed, it’s because I didn’t really care for that one. I guess you could say that I’m more of a romantic, and Fifty Shades Freed had plenty of action in it. Also, I believe I didn’t care for it because it meant that, that would be the last time I got to see a love like that on screen, that is until someone else can make something like it or better.

Inclosing I would just like to say; if you haven’t seen it and you’re a romantic like me, “What are you waiting for?”

ana and christian

If you Rather read it, here are links where you can purchase the books

Fifty Shades Freed– The last in the series

Fifty Shades Darker– The Second (My personal favorite)

Fifty Shades of Grey– The beginning of a beautiful love story



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