Continue to be a bright light in a room of darkness.Be that spark that ignites the flame. Live and thrive in love.

I wanna try something… How many INFP’s are there out here who read this blog? Just incase you don’t know the characteristics, here they go: Selectively observant Tend to be introverted Compassionate & Empathetic Love people almost as much as they love being alone. Very self reflective Dreamers Very self conscious If you can relate … Read more

Finding U

I am going to remain positive. Sometimes the old way that your body handles conflict rises up and takes hold. Your job is to make sure you correct that way of thinking if it has a negativeimpact on you. Sometimes you have to take things for what they are and then move on. I understand … Read moreFinding U

First Day Back

Getting ready trying to keep the over thinker at bay. To remind you guys, I haven’t been at work since March. For some this may not seem like a big deal. For me though it’s the biggest hump I’m gonna have to get over; especially because my seclusion which became my normal is not gonna … Read moreFirst Day Back

Peace of mind

Good Morning!!! As always, I hope you all are doing well, enjoying your summer and everything. I have to say that I’ve learned a lot this summer. More than I ever thought I would. Hate that I had to go through it. But that’s what has to happen for you to learn from your mistakes. … Read morePeace of mind

Never Settle

Hope you’re having a successful Sunday!!!! Question of the day: Why is it necessary to give your all? That question comes to mind because as far back as I can remember every woman around me has always been expected to give their all to the man they’re with. Why? Many times these men don’t seem … Read moreNever Settle

Mundane Experience

You know when you reach that point of frustration where you just feel like giving up??? That’s where I am at the current time. I try to make sure that I remain humble and take nothing or no one for granted. But it seems like it’s getting harder everyday to push through. But I guess … Read moreMundane Experience

Social Anxiety!!!!

Hey everyone. Hope you’re having a lovely productive day.

My topic if choice today is social anxiety. I chose this topic because it is something I battle with on a day to day basis. I can’t say that I have been medically diagnosed, but I’m sure that is what this is.

Everyday I dread going outside of my house. Not because I hate going outside, because I love nature. I’m just not a fan of meeting and speaking to new people. Don’t get me wrong I would love to expand the number of friends I have. I just become very frustrated, flustered and uncomfortable when meeting new people.

I wish socializing came easy to me like breathing, but it doesn’t. My mind is constantly filled with negative thoughts of how my interaction with the next person is going to play out.

It’s not as if I’m asking them to do something. That is definitely not the case. It’s more of wanting them to except and love me for who I am.

I never understood it, but I always have strived for approval of every person that has ever entered my life; from my Mom all the way done to the cashier at the grocery store. I know that no one has a great relationship with everyone they every met. If they do it’s usually because they are not being true to themselves, in most cases.

So at the current moment I’m working on me and taking steps to having a better quality of life.

Who has felt like this?

If you have, it would be nice to know I’m not alone.

As always

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Ballzy

Good morning!!! As always, I hope all is well. This post is going to be a little different, mainly because I wanted to talk about an indie artist I’m sure everyone knows about. And if you don’t know who she is, you need to get to know. Billie Eilish….. I swear if I could I … Read moreBallzy

Use it don’t let it use you

This morning I was face with a questioned I’ve always thought of but never answered. What do you think of yourself? Naturally, I didn’t stick to a simple answer. I just had to make it long; and that is what you’re about to read. I feel like I’m naturally a nice person. But I’m overly … Read moreUse it don’t let it use you

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