I hope everyone is starting out with a lovely Friday morning!
Let me start by saying, you’re out look on life affects EVERYTHING!!! I knew this but the more I begin to look into The Law Of Attraction it is proving to go deeper than I ever imagined. I used to believe it only affects your mood. But when you think about it deeper your mood and beliefs are what determines what type of person you become. For example: If you’re someone who is shy and slow to react, that is how life is going to treat you. It’s going to be slow to react if react at all, because of your lack of confidence.
From what I’m beginning to understand, you get what you BELIEVE you deserve. It’s all in how you think of it.
Example: I live a life of freedom and abundance. What I need the Universe has already provided.
Doubting causes that thing to appear unattainable. We all understand that when something seems unattainable it appears to be harder to get. That’s why when you see something you want you have to believe with your whole heart that nothing is impossible to accomplish. This then frees up the space for doubt to lurk around and cause you sabotage the life you BELIEVE you deserve.
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There has been so many things that have changed. I guess you can say I kind of reverted back to my old life because I’m living with my mother again. During this last week there have been so many ups and downs. Over all I am happy, because it means that I can really focus on making my business grow. As I’ve said many times before; I know this is not going to be a cake walk. This is really going to take some real hard work and dedication. I just don’t need other people trying to come in and take what I’ve taken the time to learn and make into something for themselves.
There are people in this world who are straight forward, honest, and loyal. Then you have other people who are always trying to find an easy way to make a come up. Trying to get information or free labor from those people who only have the purest intensions. Using them for their brain or what ever else they can offer. This seems like the same type of person I keep getting reintroduced to over and over and over again. I’m tired of it!
One thing is for damn sure! I’m not going down that road again! I’m tired of being that person who continuously wants to believe that all people have an honest or loyal bone in their body, when some just don’t! Every time I allow myself to think like that I always seem to be the one coming away feeling like I’ve gotten taken advantage of. This time around I’m not gonna be a fool about it; because I’ve worked to hard to create the business that I have to just work for someone else for discounted rates.
Some people believe that they have the gift of persuasion. They believe they’re so good that they can talk you into doing something for them without you even realizing it. The one thing a lot of people don’t understand is; I don’t play about my money or my business, If you think you’re gonna get one over on me, think again. I’m trying to make something of myself too.
One thing I will never do is try to fast talk someone into doing something that is going to majorly benefit me and not them. That is not the way I roll. Sometimes I’m too honest for my own good. That’s why most times I sit back and let people talk. If you listen close enough you’ll hear exactly what you need to hear in one conversation, especially when it comes to business.
Since I’ve been back home I realized I’m not to fond of the bull****. I rather for someone to come at me straight. It is true; When you get older some s*** you just can’t tolerate anymore. And I think I’ve hit my wall.
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It seems like the nicer you are the more ain’t shit people come to you trying to get you to do things they know they wouldn’t think twice to do for you!!! In my life time I’ve had so many people take advantage of my humility. That shit has got to change!!! I can’t do it anymore! I have to start saying what I mean and meaning what I say. Life’s too short to bite your tongue all the time. I’ve always known that, I just haven’t chosen to live by it. I’m not sure if I’m going to live by it but I’m damn sure going to try!
You see, there are people who I get close to and they find out that I’m nothing but a big puddle of mush and then ask me to do things they know I wouldn’t ask them to do, and the messed up part about it, most of them know how hard it is for me to say “NO”. I’m sure they play off of that, matter fact I know they know it’s hard for me to say “No” that’s the reason they ask me. I always thought the reason I hate saying “NO” was do to the way it makes people feel. But I’ve come to realize it’s not so much of how they feel but how it’s going to affect me in the long run. I know you might be thinking I’m thinking to deep into it, but I’ve been down this road a little too many times to count. Many times when I don’t do something that someone asks me, they usually stop talking to me. I know I should be saying, “Good reddens!” but it’s hard for me to let people go like that because in know way do I let people only get to know the top layer of me. When I really talk to someone they are getting to know me, and I take that very seriously. I guess that’s why I don’t open up to too many people for fear of being rejected or let down.
I know that I should have gotten over people trying to use me and learn to care about myself first, Caring for others has always been my main focus, so much so, that it feels like a curse at times. I love people even though they don’t always love me back. At times I feel that God made me a little to loyal, but then I remember my family and my mother, and instantly it makes sense.
I know that I’m all over the place. That’s because as I write I start to figure things out, and what I’ve come to realize is, loyal, loving and caring are never characteristics to regret. If you feel they are, maybe you need to reevaluate the people and energy you let into your circle. Once you do life becomes a lot easier.