Not Ready

This video was something I felt I needed to do at the time, because I was really going through. I was with this man that I thought was going to end up being my husband. But his a** had other thoughts. See his problem was he believed I was going to be that girlfriend that … Read moreNot Ready

Trauma

Disclaimer: If you or someone you know has gone through or are sensitive to childhood trauma, please do not engage in reading this post. What’s up everyone?! I know you may think you know me from many of my blogs… But how can you know me when I don’t even think I know myself?! I … Read moreTrauma

Stand your Ground

Good Morning my Beautiful, Beautiful People!!! How are yawl  doing on this Marvelous Monday?!   I’m sure a lot of us are still going or are a little crazy because of this quarantine we’re under. Don’t worry it’ll get better all in time. Well… you know there’s always something I want to bring to you … Read moreStand your Ground

Never Settle

Hope you’re having a successful Sunday!!!! Question of the day: Why is it necessary to give your all? That question comes to mind because as far back as I can remember every woman around me has always been expected to give their all to the man they’re with. Why? Many times these men don’t seem … Read moreNever Settle

Self love is the Best love

Good Morning Yawl!!!!   I hope everyone is happy and living their best life, despite the state of the world. Don’t let that get you down. There are reasons to be in your feelings and unhappy, but look past those things and be happy for the things you still have; breath in your body for … Read moreSelf love is the Best love

Social Anxiety!!!!

Hey everyone. Hope you’re having a lovely productive day.

My topic if choice today is social anxiety. I chose this topic because it is something I battle with on a day to day basis. I can’t say that I have been medically diagnosed, but I’m sure that is what this is.

Everyday I dread going outside of my house. Not because I hate going outside, because I love nature. I’m just not a fan of meeting and speaking to new people. Don’t get me wrong I would love to expand the number of friends I have. I just become very frustrated, flustered and uncomfortable when meeting new people.

I wish socializing came easy to me like breathing, but it doesn’t. My mind is constantly filled with negative thoughts of how my interaction with the next person is going to play out.

It’s not as if I’m asking them to do something. That is definitely not the case. It’s more of wanting them to except and love me for who I am.

I never understood it, but I always have strived for approval of every person that has ever entered my life; from my Mom all the way done to the cashier at the grocery store. I know that no one has a great relationship with everyone they every met. If they do it’s usually because they are not being true to themselves, in most cases.

So at the current moment I’m working on me and taking steps to having a better quality of life.

Who has felt like this?

If you have, it would be nice to know I’m not alone.

As always

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Mirror

Have you ever spent most of your life being someone’s other half? If so, why did you feel it was important to be linked to someone in that romantic way? Are you still with them? Does always being in a relationship mean you’re codependent? If given the situation, could you walk away from an unhealthy … Read moreMirror

Dating a Woman or Man CHILD

Good Morning!!! Hope everyone is doing well… There was a question that I needed the answer too. Not really needed the answer, but wanted the answer. And that question is, “Have you ever or do you currently date someone that you feel more like a father or mother to rather than a spouse?” If so, … Read moreDating a Woman or Man CHILD

Use it don’t let it use you

This morning I was face with a questioned I’ve always thought of but never answered. What do you think of yourself? Naturally, I didn’t stick to a simple answer. I just had to make it long; and that is what you’re about to read. I feel like I’m naturally a nice person. But I’m overly … Read moreUse it don’t let it use you

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