Not Ready

This video was something I felt I needed to do at the time, because I was really going through. I was with this man that I thought was going to end up being my husband. But his a** had other thoughts. See his problem was he believed I was going to be that girlfriend that … Read moreNot Ready

Trauma

Disclaimer: If you or someone you know has gone through or are sensitive to childhood trauma, please do not engage in reading this post. What’s up everyone?! I know you may think you know me from many of my blogs… But how can you know me when I don’t even think I know myself?! I … Read moreTrauma

Stand your Ground

Good Morning my Beautiful, Beautiful People!!! How are yawl  doing on this Marvelous Monday?!   I’m sure a lot of us are still going or are a little crazy because of this quarantine we’re under. Don’t worry it’ll get better all in time. Well… you know there’s always something I want to bring to you … Read moreStand your Ground

Self love is the Best love

Good Morning Yawl!!!!   I hope everyone is happy and living their best life, despite the state of the world. Don’t let that get you down. There are reasons to be in your feelings and unhappy, but look past those things and be happy for the things you still have; breath in your body for … Read moreSelf love is the Best love

Going through the Motions

This is for all of you who have ever done the extreme to get the attention of someone; either because of your loneliness or your messed up sense of self worth.

Moving on

I gave you what you asked for but it wasn’t what you wanted, let alone what you needed. If I knew then what I know now, I wouldn’t have been with you. I would have realized that life with you was just to good to be true. Now here we are 5 yrs in and … Read moreMoving on

Experience is the best teacher

As I said in the video, there are so many young girls who want a boyfriend so bad, they’ll put their selves through torture just to say they have someone. That is a very bad practice to have. The only validation need is self validation. Once you really begin to appreciate yourself and everything that … Read moreExperience is the best teacher

Live Free

Something I’m starting to realize as I get older: I DONT NEED A MAN!!! I’m sure a lot of you may be thinking, “Duh!” But for a long time, I thought I needed someone to complete me. I always thought I wasn’t enough. This thinking held me back from a lot of things. But, you … Read moreLive Free

Fat Shaming Reboot

DON’T FOR GET TO CHECK OUT MY NEWLY PUBLISHED BOOK LOYALTY: LOVE, LIES, AND BETRAYAL BY ME; SHADRIEKA FRANKS. AVAILABLE NOW, ON AMAZON. About a week ago I wrote a post titled: Fat shaming in 2019. Really? The post did okay. Some understood where I was coming from and then you had others who believed … Read moreFat Shaming Reboot

Cheating

  What is it with this world these days? People think you’re weird because you don’t want to cheat on the person you’re with. I thought that was a good thing; to be faithful. I guess many people don’t believe it’s possible to be faithful to one person. There are men and women out here … Read moreCheating

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