To marry or not to marry; that is the question

Question of the day: If married is it the other half’s  responsibility to pay the other’s child support?   I know that question might come out of left field for some of you, but there’s a lot of people these days getting married to folks who have not paid their child support ever; or if … Read moreTo marry or not to marry; that is the question

Trust You!

GOOOOD MORNING BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE!!!!!     As always, I hope all is well and you are following the road less traveled, but the one that you feel in your heart belongs to you. Like I’ve said may times before; “You aren’t living unless you’re living a life of freedom and remain to be uninhabited by … Read moreTrust You!

Go away Rona?

Good Morning!!! Hope you all are remaining happy and healthy through out this thing. Is it me or does it seem like the Coronavirus is the only thing that seems to be the topic for everyone these days? Don’t misunderstand me, I am fearful of it too. But there are way more things to be … Read moreGo away Rona?

The Beginning

Good Afternoon!! Another day done in this quarantine. Y’all I got so bored and was thinking so much, that I decided to start my loc journey. I’ve been wanting to do this FOREVER. Given the amount of time we have off from work, I was like, “Why not?” I debated for a long time if I … Read moreThe Beginning

New Age Manipulators

Good Morning!!! As always, I hope your day has been going well and things have continued to get better in this trying time. But truth be told we all need a little something to distract us from the things going on around us.    Question: How many of us have dated someone we thought had … Read moreNew Age Manipulators

Medicinal Daily Dose

 Disclaimer: I am not a medical professional.   Looking for ways to stay healthy through this health scare?   Healthy Eating There are things you can do to make your immune system stronger. Exercise, and keeping your hands clean have been two main things I’ve been hearing over and over again. But there are other … Read moreMedicinal Daily Dose

Overall goal

Hey y’all, Hope your day has gone they way you envisioned it. I was thinking of a goal I believe maybe a little outlandish; but I’m here for it. I have set a goal of a $50,000 profit. That is how much I plan to make by the end of this year. I know to … Read moreOverall goal

Social Anxiety!!!!

Hey everyone. Hope you’re having a lovely productive day.

My topic if choice today is social anxiety. I chose this topic because it is something I battle with on a day to day basis. I can’t say that I have been medically diagnosed, but I’m sure that is what this is.

Everyday I dread going outside of my house. Not because I hate going outside, because I love nature. I’m just not a fan of meeting and speaking to new people. Don’t get me wrong I would love to expand the number of friends I have. I just become very frustrated, flustered and uncomfortable when meeting new people.

I wish socializing came easy to me like breathing, but it doesn’t. My mind is constantly filled with negative thoughts of how my interaction with the next person is going to play out.

It’s not as if I’m asking them to do something. That is definitely not the case. It’s more of wanting them to except and love me for who I am.

I never understood it, but I always have strived for approval of every person that has ever entered my life; from my Mom all the way done to the cashier at the grocery store. I know that no one has a great relationship with everyone they every met. If they do it’s usually because they are not being true to themselves, in most cases.

So at the current moment I’m working on me and taking steps to having a better quality of life.

Who has felt like this?

If you have, it would be nice to know I’m not alone.

As always

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5 Tips to change your habits for the better

Good Morning!!!!!!!! Todays post is going to be about being comfortable in your own space.  Recently I was watching a show, I believe it’s called family reunion. Well anyway, this episode was about being happy with who you are. I believe there are a lot of us who aren’t completely happy with who we are. … Read more5 Tips to change your habits for the better

Timid

Morning Good People!!! Hope life is treating you well. There is always something you’re going to have to deal with. As you may have guessed I’m not the type of person who likes conflict; hate it. But it seems like something is always happening to were I’m involved in something I didn’t intend on getting … Read moreTimid

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